Before 30

I watched the trailer of a movie,that was what brought about the title of this article.
why is there so much pressure on a lady to get married,that's one of the reason why ladies in their 30s dont like attending weddings of family members[especially when there younger relations are getting married]that's the avenue your uncles and aunties would begin questioning you about when you are getting married,they dont know you are going through enough pressure already and already even hinting your man that you are ready by pointing @  wedding gowns when you pass a store saying isn't that gown beautiful,it would look good on me[even when you know its not your dream gown,],always telling him how his last name fits your first name,when you see children always caring for them so he would think you love children and would make a good mother.[although when they pee and puke on you,you are annoyed.]things ladies do just for a man to ask that question they have always had the answer YES for.

Guys they could frustrate a lady.is it until she points a gun @ you before you know its time to pop the question.why does it have to be the man that would ask the ALMIGHTY QUESTION.i guess ladies would be happy if they were the one that had to ask the question,they wouldn't waste time @ all.imagine a guy you have been dating

g for four years then after all the hints he calls you one day for a romantic dinner and since its been a while you guys have been out due to your busy schedule[you think it would be a marriage proposal]you get a new hair done,you go to a spa.you get a new dress,you looking extremely beautiful[you remove the fashion ring on the finger meant for the proposal ring]
In between your dinner he asks you for a break,and you cant even hold your emotion and tell him you came here thinking he was ready to propose.and the first thing you ask him is dont you love me again.an hes like i do but am not ready[after four years].i still need four more years[and the lady is 27]to get married and four more for kids.Then she starts a new relationship waiting and praying for him to pop the question soon.I advise you to just walk away because someone like that can never be ready for marriage.he is not ready for what marriage entails.
So parents,relations,public,its not our fault we are not married,if we had our way we would get married sooner than expected and you would even tell us that[are we sending you from home].if my future hubby is reading the post please ask me the question sooner than expected,[i want to be surprised and shouting i cant believe this,am i dreaming,]not thank God @ last after 8 years.my parent are already asking me when am leaving their home to build my own home.